Sorry, I’m still a bit behind on posts, but I just wanted to let you all know that I’m going to start allowing photo posts for things like that last post. Someone asked me if I would allow them to submit it, and so I decided it would be a good addition to the blog.
So anyway, I will let you guys submit photo posts, in case you ever want to talk about body image, or something related to that.
However, don’t be too derogatory, rude, or graphic.
I’ll hopefully open submissions soon, you guys!
Bless♥
• Monday May 23
I hope it’s okay for me to submit this in a photo form…
I drew this on paint. This is my secret.
I hate my body. My lower belly pudges out. My shoulders are terribly broad. I have fat rolls above my breasts, which makes it impossible to pull off anything strapless. I am extremely self conscious about my breasts. My upper back curves forward, which makes me have awful posture. No matter how hard I try to keep my back straight, I can’t. Since I’m always slouching forward, my breasts sag down and look flattened. Even when I stand up, they still look flat, especially from the side. I have cellulite EVERYWHERE. I hate looking at myself naked. I’m worried that I’m going to end up with an eating disorder, because it’s so tempting to just not eat.
No one knows this about me. I am great at faking confidence in front of others, but when I’m alone, I just feel disgusting.
• Monday May 23
Okay, I’m back, and doing much better!
I am going to bed now, but tomorrow I will start working on your submitted secrets, and hopefully re-open submissions pretty soon.
:)
• Saturday May 21I’m going to have to take a day or two off of tumblr. I have some very personal issues going on right now, and I just cannot devote my energy to anything, honestly.
I’m also going to turn off submissions so they don’t pile up on me.
I’m really sorry. I hope you guys can understand. I’ve just got a lot going on right now and I can’t handle any type of stress.
Bless you all.<3
I hope I will be back quite soon.
• Wednesday May 18
Anonymous asked: hi. i need some advice about some stuff... :/ k well, im depressed, & well. i dont know if i should tell my bestfriend or not, should i? or should i keep it a secret, im just scared she'll laugh at me, and tell me im a joke,
Well, there are several things to consider.
First of all, when you’re depressed, talking to someone about it can help a little. Just to be able to say everything out loud, everything you’ve been holding inside.
It seems that you might not trust your best friend, since you’re worried she would laugh at you. But if you really, really think you can trust your best friend, then maybe you should tell her. If you decide to tell her, you need to wait until you are alone with her, where you can both be serious and not distracted by other things. You just need to tell her exactly what you feel. Tell her you’re sad, tell her why, tell her what’s going on. If you trust her and you tell her, she might really be able to help you through it.
If you don’t think you can trust her, then I have two other suggestions.
You could find someone else you can really trust. I know this will sound corny, but maybe there is a teacher you could talk to? I had a teacher that I became very close with, and I talked to her about everything I was going through and it made things so much better for me. If not a teacher, maybe a cousin, or a sibling?
If you don’t think there is anyone you can trust, you could always write out everything you’re feeling. Write it in a journal, on an anonymous tumblr, anything. Just get out everything you’re feeling. That was always something that helped me.
I hope this helps! Good luck, and bless! <3
• Tuesday May 17
